If you are over 55, single and reading this….it tells me two very important things about you…
you have loved someone with all your being sometime in life and then time has taken that away …and that …deep down you would love to “love” again…... (Read More)
Life is made up of such an intense array of colours….of journeys travelled, memories created, magical moments shared….and we often tend to hold on to those, because no matter how hard we might want, holding on to people is just so out of our control.
Loss is felt in so many ways in the various facets of life. However the loss of losing a loved one is truly the top of the list. It can be due to a number of reasons-people drifting apart because they evolved differently over time or a loved one passing away. When someone we love goes away it feels like we cannot breathe, with the pain and the anguish. But life never has and never will stop for anyone. And that is why it is important to take a step back and to ask ourselves what would really make us happy, whole again?. I truly believe that finding true companionship is a blessing and having someone to lean on and to share life with makes us heal again, no matter what our age and what our experience.
We have over the years been offering a confidential search which is built on recognising that every Individual is their own person.. simple and yet complicated. There are so many layers to a person and we try and offer an environment of getting to know the person and their journey so we can connect two individuals who even though they might have had very different experiences in life, are similar in their core. What binds them is their zest for life…for caring…for reacting in different ways when they get hurt, and respecting those differences...
Its up to us to extend our hand to the universe and reach out, and i do believe that the universe will reach back.I hope you do too. You owe it to yourself.
Q. Do you have somebody you care about... a friend...a relative...a parent...who is over 55 and single?
When we get married, we truly believe that it is for forever, but sometimes life has its own plans and despite best efforts things turn out very differently in life. We have all seen the anguish of someone suddenly losing their spouse to an untimely event or a divorce. We do our best to support our loved one in their new single life, but we know deep in our hearts that no matter how hard we try we just cannot fill the vacuum that has been left by a partners absence…... (Read More)
We, at Vows for Eternity, have for years been offering a global, personalized and confidential life partner search for people in their mid 20’s to late 40’s. We extended the search to people older, because, I realised that no one else can fill that vacuum….not parents, not friends, not kids, not other relatives….It just isn't the same. The need for true companionship; that of sharing smiles and more importantly tears, gets stronger with time and age. This time around, its about two people coming together by using their own life experiences to build a bridge to create new memories and not have to be apologetic about it.
When we were little, our elders put us before what they wanted and now as they have grown older, they put what we might think, how harshly we might judge them before what they want. It is sad, but true. And it is not something for us to be proud of.
How does one give back to a loved one? Money they don't need..time we don't have….how can we help fill that void?
And then I realised that its about giving them a gift that is priceless…that of companionship…. it is never too late to bring a smile back on the face of someone we love…it is never too late to encourage them to let go of the loneliness….the pain..